Saturday, June 18, 2011

And a caving we will go…


The Caglewood Group is off to one of our most anticipated trips of the year! CAVING! Of course, our group will not be crawling through 10 inch holes or scaling walls with only a head lamp, rope, and carabineers. But they are going to be exploring caves, learning some history, and gem mining after their adventure.

And look who is joining the clan…


Yes, their first trip as Jr. counselors………WITHOUT mommy!! They were so very excited. Can’t wait to see pictures!

It all starts this weekend!!!! I am beside myself with excitement at the thought of my children being raised within the ‘special needs community’. They will know nothing different. Serving others and accepting and loving others for their differences with just come naturally to them. No matter the difference, the disability, the color, or even (stepping out of the box) sexual preference– we are ALL beautiful and I cannot wait to share this experience with them and watch them blossom into such loving individuals for the years to come. I think being exposed to everything within our society will help them find and know themselves, create independence and great self esteem, and will open the door for them to do anything and everything they dream to do.

This was sent to me in an e-mail the other day…so cute…

Blue Rose
Having four visiting family members, my wife was very busy, so I offered to go to the store for her to get some needed items, which included light bulbs, paper towels, trash bags, detergent and Clorox. So off I went.
I scurried around the store, gathered up my goodies and headed for the checkout counter, only to be blocked in the narrow aisle by a young man who appeared to be about sixteen-years-old. I wasn't in a hurry, so I patiently waited for the boy to realize that I was there. This was when he waved his hands excitedly in the air and declared in a loud voice, "Mommy, I'm over here."
It was obvious now, he was mentally challenged and also startled as he turned and saw me standing so close to him, waiting to squeeze by. His eyes widened and surprise exploded on his face as I said, "Hey Buddy, what's your name?"
"My name is Denny and I'm shopping with my mother," he responded proudly.
"Wow," I said, "that's a cool name; I wish my name was Denny, but my name is Steve."
"Steve, like Stevarino?" he asked.  "Yes," I answered. "How old are you Denny?"
"How old am I now, Mommy?" he asked his mother as she slowly came over from the next aisle.
"You're fifteen-years-old Denny; now be a good boy and let the man pass by."
I acknowledged her and continued to talk to Denny for several more minutes about summer, bicycles and school. I watched his brown eyes dance with excitement, because he was the center of someone's attention. He then abruptly turned and headed toward the toy section.
Denny's mom had a puzzled look on her face and thanked me for taking the time to talk with her son. She told me that most people wouldn't even look at him, much less talk to him.
I told her that it was my pleasure and then I said something I have no idea where it came from, other than by the prompting of the Holy Spirit. I told her that there are plenty of red, yellow, and pink roses in God's Garden; however, "Blue Roses" are very rare and should be appreciated for their beauty and distinctiveness. You see, Denny is a Blue Rose and if someone doesn't stop and smell that rose with their heart and touch that rose with their kindness, then they've missed a blessing from God.

She was silent for a second, then with a tear in her eye she asked, "Who are you?"
Without thinking I said, "Oh, I'm probably just a dandelion, but I sure love living in God's garden."
She reached out, squeezed my hand and said, "God bless you!" and then I had tears in my eyes.
May I suggest, the next time you see a BLUE ROSE, don't turn your head and walk off. Take the time to smile and say Hello. Why? Because, by the grace of GOD, this mother or father could be you. This could be your child, grandchild, niece or nephew. What a difference a moment can mean to that person or their family.
>From an old dandelion!  Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God.

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